Family & Friendship...............

I always wanted to live alone far away from my parents, my sister and from the people I know and also from the people who know me. I was just 17 when such a thought came to my mind. It happened when I joined for MBA in a college that is far away from my place and is situated in a hill station. That was a different world, away from human civilization. It was a place where there were only few people. A complete cut off from the outer world. I started missing my parents somewhat. Now when I got placed and I am really far away from my parents I am missing them badly. Thought I tell my parents that I miss u a lot, they tell me that “ Beta that’s life , You should first look after yourself. Don’t bother about us. Do hard work and make your life happy and be happy, that’s all we want”.

I really understood that there are many other things in life which we should not leave behind. The family…parents and siblings are really special. I feel whatever happens to in life... The good or the bad, only the parents will be there with us. Thought many of us feel that friends are there always with us … even I felt so many times … but that’s not the truth. Friends will be there but after a point of time they will take their way and we people will be on our way. At this I would like to share a quote by Kautilya or famously known as Chanakya.. The great Indian Economist, "There is some self-interest behind every friendship. There is no Friendship without self-interests. This is a bitter truth." …I believe that in this world there is no relationship which exists without any self interest except the relationship between parents and the child.

Though there are many friendships without any self interests and friends without any intentions to make use of the other, but to get such a friend and to get into such a friendship it is very hard and rare to see. At times only from one side the friendship is true the other one might not take it sincerely. Friendship should be there without any conditions and any self interests. We can only hope for such people and such a friendship. There might be many people around you but all might not be your friend. There might be many people close to you but still all must not be good or your friend. It an individual who decides who he should consider as friend and whom he should avoid.

Life..... Its strange.... Everyone of us at a moment of life might have felt like this ..... Life is strange and the most dynamic thing.... Though life is cool thats what I feel... Life is a teacher... we can learn many things from it... I would like to quote a line which i heard in some song when I was in class 12th.. It keeps on striking in my mind... "Life is like a blast... moving pretty fast... better stay on top... or life will kick you in the A$$"..... at many point of my life i felt its very true... but it need not be as the one who is not on top is also doing well.... its all about the talent that one have in him/her, about which he/she realizes later or might be early... Many people i met in my life... made many friends ... lost the loved once... and many things ... When left the school and entered the college life then felt like school life was the best... when joined for PG then felt like degree college was best... but now when about to leave the college after PG feeling like wow its all over now ... no studies .. can have fun like a free bird.... I guess i might be wrong.. but thats what i believe in ... I can meet more people... can make more friends and yeah above all can learn something new and different. Today I am going to leave my college after 2 years... Having no idea of what is waiting out for me... Whatever it may be... I have to face it.

I am feeling bad for only one thing that I'll be leaving my room.. :( :( .... and that room will be alloted to some other super junior who is about to join the college, as we are moving out.